06/18/07 - 06/27/07
Keeping with last weeks poll theme on your thoughts on cheating, I wanted to know what you felt about online contacts. For those of you who can not see the above image, this poll question was "If you start a serious relationship, should you delete all of your online "contacts"?"
Still, not surprised by the results. The wining answer hands down was (74% of the vote with 14 votes), "No, there is nothing wrong with remaining friends with them.", which I feel is the best answer. What some of you didn't realize is that kinda go hand in hand with the answer "No, you need some "back burners" no matter what. Really, if you end your serious relationship, what are you going to do? I know it's still not to remain friends with those old "contact'.
These days, our messengers, be it AIM, Yahoo!, MSN or any other is the new "Black Book". Very easy to access, and got all of the contact information that you need on those old reliable FBs and potential future husbands/wives. If we keep the online 'Black Book', we are going to reach for it again when the nights are lonely.
The vote that came in second was "Yes, keeping them is a form of cheating!" (having 21% of the vote with 4 votes), I kinda disagree with you all. I know people who has done that in the past, or lovers who have done that to them and if/when the relationships end, they are always end up sorry because that was years (for some decades) of hard work, GONE, just like that.
Now for those of you who are in a serious relationship, and has been that way for years, and your relationship is so awesome, you don't see it ending ever, then by all means, delete those contacts. They are no longer necessary. They would be just a waste of hard drive space. Especially if they were not friends anyway, just people you liked to cyber with. Unless you are in one of those types of relationships that allows 3rd parties to come in, then you can delete all of those contacts.